First Impressions

Every week we send out a thank you letter to guests who attend a SUN AM service here at the Vineyard. We include a postcard that asks for a person's first impressions of the church, of worship, of our people...really anything that a person wants to comment on -- it's wide open!

Every one is very gracious and kind in their remarks, from: people are so friendly to the music was nice to my kids were well taken care of, etc. Sometimes we do get a few that cross the line and can be mean -- but we want that feedback! My former pastor used to tell me that feedback is the breakfast of champions! (I know that he stole that quote from someone famous -- I just can't remember who right now.)

This week a person shared that she loved the friendliness of the church, loved the teaching & worship BUT -- it would be nice if the senior pastor dressed up a little more! I had on my jeans and a nice button down shirt (like every other SUN) plus I didn't wear my running shoes! I thought I was dressed up!

Seriously -- the reason for not dressing up is this: I want people to feel comfortable coming into this building wearing whatever they have. If they are wearing suits -- good for them! If they are wearing shorts & a T-shirt -- that's great too! except that we do live in MN and it is cold here10 out of 12 months!

I don't want to set myself apart (or my staff to be set apart either) from people as they come in. I want people to experience God's love no matter their fashion. I remember in college not having too many nice clothes and when I finally went to church I found out it didn't matter the clothes I wear -- it mattered where my heart was. In the OT it says that man looks at the outward appearance, but God looks at my heart. I like that!

Have you seen those new commercials that say get your FASH-on! (fashion) I want people to get their church-on, regardless of their fash-on! My wife gets upset with me once in a while because I'll grab some cheap, ripped up jeans at Unique (kinda like goodwill) and try to wear them to church. But what's the difference if God is looking at my heart. Shouldn't I take him at His word?

In fact, I think I'll wear my running shoes this week! It will be a good reminder of this, plus it will remind me to pray for those running the TC Marathon.
God's best to ya! Chris